MY STORY
When I first became a father, I had a clear vision: to be present in my children's lives every single day. Life, however, had different plans. Through an unexpected journey of divorce and co-parenting, God revealed a deeper purpose in my path to fatherhood.
As a Black father with full custody of my children, I represent a rare statistic—only 4% of Black children under 18 live with single fathers, according to the Pew Research Center. This reality isn't just a number to me; it's a daily reminder of God's grace and the profound responsibility He's entrusted to me.
My journey through single fatherhood brought unexpected challenges: learning to cook, doing laundry, styling my daughter's hair, and managing a household alone. But the biggest transformation came when I realized that to be the father my children needed, I first needed to become a student—of God's wisdom, of experienced fathers before me, and of life's daily lessons.
The Birth of Fatherhood to Sonship
The concept of Fatherhood to Sonship was born from this journey of transformation. While serving time, my cousin Breontae recommended Robin Sharma's "Who Will Cry When You Die?" One quote particularly struck me: "To live in the hearts of those you leave behind is to live forever." This powerful message reshaped my understanding of legacy—it's not about material success, but about the lasting impact we have through love, wisdom, and presence.
Our Mission
Today, Fatherhood to Sonship exists to guide fathers through their own journey of growth and transformation. We believe that the greatest fathers are those who never stop learning, who embrace their dual role as both father and son—leading their children while remaining students of the Father above.
We support fathers in:
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Embracing their identity as sons of God while leading their own children
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Learning from biblical principles and time-tested wisdom
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Creating intentional legacies that honor God and inspire future generations
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Building communities of support with other fathers on the same journey
Though my divorce was painful, I now see it as part of God's plan—a catalyst that pushed me to grow as both a father and a son in faith. This journey has taught me that true fatherhood is about being present, continuous learning, and loving fiercely despite life's challenges.